The Ending

A YF of mine died in 2002, aged 12 years 7 months and 15 days. It was due to a car crash, where he was traveling home with his dad from a school parents tutor evening.. (British schools have a night where parents talk to their kids teachers about their kids school behavior and problems and achievements) .. anyways.. my YF wasn't exactly a sweet angel.. and his dad found out one or two things that made him angry..

Whilst driving home.. in a state of anger.. his dad was speeding in his car with my YF, Aaron, in the passenger seat. i can only imagine that they were having an argument at the time. Has Aaron had a text message for me (that he never got to send) and i was given it after the funeral. A funeral i was not allowed to go to, due to our relationship being unwelcome.

The Text message said.

Quote:

FFS Ma da is makin me hed fuk, he pissd at me n dat smokin in da skool. i ned hug i duno if i com ta urs t'nite i grounded dunno wen see ya again. luv Azzer

Azzer was his nickname.. for Aaron.

he died 17 mins later after taking the full force of the impact. His dad survived.. and is currently in a wheel chair and i don't even care to find out if he is out of prison yet.. he was sent down for "Causing Death By Dangerous and Reckless Driving" and "Causing A fatality Through Careless Driving"

here is a news paper article about it.

Quote:

One dead, and one injured following high-speed crash on ****** south of ******* (I edited it to prevent identifying the location) Published on Saturday 8th June 2002 09.34 am A Teenager died in a high-speed collision on the ****** south of **** yesterday (Friday). One teenager aged 12 died and the father critically injured in a high speed accident following a parent-tutor evening occurred yesterday police have confirmed. The boy, who cannot be named for legal reasons died at the scene and the boys father Mr. ***** was taken to hospital, seriously injured with leg and back injuries. Emergency services worked to free two casualties trapped within the vehicle with life-threatening injuries. The boy died at the scene as doctors treated his injuries that were to severe. The remaining patient was stabilized and prioritized before being transferred to ****** hospital in ******* via air ambulance and road crews with the voluntary doctors providing medical escort. LIVES and doctors from the ***** Immediate Care Scheme and BASICS were called to assist the ambulance and air crews on the scene. In addition, an RAF crew which was returning to base stopped to help. A spokesman for LIVES said: “The BASICS doctors worked with rescue crews to emergency extricate assess and deliver high quality life-saving treatment to the casualties on scene. Unfortunately, one patient died of their injuries on scene despite the best efforts of the doctors and paramedics.” Police are now investigating the incident and the next of kin has been informed. Due to the nature of the incident with witness statements, more details cannot be revealed until the investigation is completed. A spokesman for ****** Constabulary said: "It is a tragic accident in which a young teenager has lost his life. The father is in critical condition and is being treated by medical staff. I can confirm that there are no other persons involved and that the reasons for this accident will be thoroughly investigated"

A Few weeks later this news article was realeased..

Quote:

The teenager who tragically lost his life on Friday 7th June 2002, has been named as 12 year old Aaron ****** of ****** in ******.The father is recovering in ****** hospital and will not be expected to have the use of his legs again. Our condolence goes to the loved ones of the deceased. Police have concluded that the driver, 43 year old ******* ******* was driving with excessive speed and is currently under hospital arrest for causing Death by Dangerous Driving.

... and for those who want to know who Aaron was.

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This is the car

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All i have to remember him is memories and his favorite rabbit toy.. "Snuugy" pronounced "Snoogy" which he left behind at my house... pictured above.


R.I.P Aaron
Born 24th November 1989 to 7th June 2002.